Because many Columbia-area families visit around shift changes, weekends, or evenings, the details you capture early can be crucial—especially when the facility later says symptoms were “inevitable.” Start with a simple log:
- Dates/times you noticed reduced intake, meal refusal, thirst complaints, or sudden confusion
- What you observed: staff assistance with eating/drinking, wheelchair positioning, whether the resident was alert enough to consume fluids
- Any “in-between” changes: new medications, missed meals, increased sleeping, urinary issues, constipation, or wound changes
- How staff responded: Did anyone call a nurse/doctor right away? Were labs ordered? Was a dietitian involved?
- What the facility told you compared with what you saw
If you have copies of MDS/assessment summaries, care plans, diet orders, weight trends, and lab results, keep them together. If not, ask for them promptly.


